How to get people to do
what you want…and thank
you for it.
For pastors and teachers, for managers and parents, for attorneys
& salespersons who seek to get things done by persuading others.
The only way to
make reluctant persons let you win every pot at cards, take home
every attractive lover or get the lion’s share of the money, is by
cheating, bullying or stealing everything you want. You shall have
to outwit, outrun or out-bluff the people you want to take
advantage of. The major trouble with that deceptive approach is
society develops its own ways of dealing with people like that.
Unless you get out of town ahead of the mob coming with tar and
feathers, moving every few months to new hunting grounds, life can
get very painful. Of course you could take up free lance bank
robbing or selling dope down by the elementary school -- after
your company fires you, your kids run away from home and your
spouse files for divorce.
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On the other hand, you
should become a genuinely nice guy or gal who consistently uses
powerful I win -- you win persuasion and reinforcement
techniques. This is a much better way, you don’t have to keep
moving around, changing your name, finding new places to live,
enrolling the kids in strange schools and watching out for
torches and pitchforks in the night. And you shall certainly
feel much better about life and your place in the scheme of good
things.
 Some time ago
the author was promoting
NICE GUYS
on a television talk show in
Cleveland, Ohio. The host, John Thompson was skeptical about the
title, was doubtful that nice guys or gals could succeed at
anything important in this lousy, rotten world. He asked the
studio audience to vote about it. How many agreed with him and how
many agreed with the author of such nonsense? The audience split
right down the middle, about one hundred fifty raised their hands
that he was right, nice guys get clobbered -- one hundred fifty
agreed with Jard, nice guys can succeed very well. John than asked
Jard to answer the doubts of the audience. Jard explained that it
depended on how one defined the term nice guy. He said that if a
nice guy was a doormat, a marshmallow, a wimp -- he or she didn’t
have a chance at success. On the other hand, if you considered a
nice guy or gal as someone who:
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That is the
only way to be consistently successful in maintaining I win -- You
win relationships. John was flabbergasted. He muttered, "Well,
I’ll be damned; I never thought of it that way!" right on the air.
He took another vote and only two of the three hundred or so
audience members still disagreed with the author. It was by far
the most persuasive fifteen seconds of his life Of course, that is what this course is all about. You will
learn how to:
- Identify the personality
patterns that motivate yourself and other women and men.
- Consistently get inside the
thought processes of the people you want to influence
- Persuade other persons to tell you
everything you want to know about anything.
- Identify the step by step
progression of a successful interpersonal relationship.
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- Master several powerful conflict
avoidance and conflict control techniques.
- Use a refusal to cooperate as a
request for additional information.
- Climb the cooperation ladder
to consistent interpersonal success.
- Finalize agreements so there are
fewer brush fires for you to fight.
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This
extraordinary course outlines a foolproof program for getting
success and meaning in business, at home and in love
relationships. And it doesn’t require you to step on others.
Jard DeVille’s BASIC PRINCIPLE, Good Things Happen To
People Who Cooperate and his
LAW OF RECIPROCITY,
The Way You Want People To Act Toward You Is The Way You Must
First Treat Them, are the basis of personal achievement.
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persuasion
and reinforcement techniques.
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